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Client Testimonials of Our Work

The Diagnosis

Is this you?

You've been hyper aware for as long as you can remember.

You think before you act — sometimes for too long. You agonize over how other people view you, to the point that you self-abandon regularly.

No one is meaner to you than you. Your inner dialogue is like a scene from Mean Girls.

You don't feel pressure because it's just the water you swim in. It never releases, even when it's time to relax.

You secretly judge people who rest, because deep down you don't feel like you have permission.

You are always moving, working, cleaning, writing, organizing, learning — anything to keep from sitting still and connecting to your feelings. You are the most organized person you know, but that doesn't stop you from making everything you do wrong before you've even begun.

You say you want relief. But honestly, relief isn't compatible with your identity right now.

That's why none of the coaches, courses, meditations, or vacations helped.

They kept bouncing off your identity as the one who holds it all together — because she is the only one who CAN'T fall apart.

What My Clients Say

"AmyLee has helped me to see what I've always seen as faults as being some of the best things about myself."

I was doing great in my business financially. I had all the things in place from the outside world's view and I magically showed up wherever my children needed me . . . but I was lost. And tired. So very tired. I allowed others to make me feel as though they came before my child. Although I started my business to feel freedom, there was nothing free about where I was. AmyLee helped me establish much needed boundaries. She's helped me find a new perspective on how I see myself and to use that insight to better serve my needs. AmyLee has helped me to see what I've always seen as faults as being some of the best things about myself. Today I feel the happiest, freest, and healthiest I've felt in years and it's all because I'm taking all the pieces of me and putting them where they belong and adding a little self-love on the way. Thank you AmyLee.

Crystal Chapman

"I messaged Amy Lee in full spiral mode. Something happened with a client. I handled it completely reasonably... By the end of the conversation I remembered who I actually was. The woman who just closed a $24k month. She just needed someone to stop letting me forget it.""

Hannah Becker

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